We spend a lot of time looking at book covers here. Among the myriad of slightly blurry blond women with obscured faces and third world fonts, I found a clear winner for my favorite book cover of 2010, designed by Patrick Barry.
Good color scheme, design actually related to book subject, old timey letter press feel but not in a hokey way and (important important important) cover design continues on spine. Check and mate!
I guess hoarders are somewhat in style right now as a subject of fascination and it’s not hard to see why. Most of the hoarders that authors Randy O. Frost and Gail Steketee profile in Stuff: Compulsive Hoarding and the Meaning of Things are enthusiastic and thoughtful people who happen to channel their best qualities towards inanimate objects. But what is hoarding?
‘Acquisition and saving of possessions is not inherantly problematic,’ write Frost and Steketee. ‘In fact, within our culture, it is normative. However, for the people described in this book, who represent up to 5 percent of the population, these behaviors are out of control and result in serious impairment and distress. This group is the subject of the mental health and neuroscience research on compulsive hoarding that we have described here.’
Stuff is interesting on both fronts set out in the subtitle. The anecdotes about individual hoarders, along with their stories about often painful childhoods and insights into their own delusions, are fascinating. Obvious mentions are the famous hoarder socialite Collyer brothers, one of whom was crushed to death by his own possessions. There is also a psychiatrist who starts a cat hoarding cult with her patients and a man so obsessed with his ring collection that he came to possess one ring when he ‘had seen it on the finger of the man standing at the urinal next to his in the restroom and offered him three times what it was worth.’
However, what was most important to me was the second part of the subtitle, ‘the Meaning of Things.’ The authors do not see hoarders as freaks but as a natural sort of visible tip of the iceberg that is our materialistic culture. In fact, Frost and Steketee’s final reflections seem to agree less with Thorstein Veblen’s rosy cheeked idea of Conspicuous Consumption than with Karl Marx and that one part in Fight Club when they burn stuff.
‘As has been apparent to us from studying hoarding, we may own the things in our homes, but they own us as well. Objects carry the burden of responsibilities that include acquisition, use, care, storage, and disposal. The magnitude of these responsibiliites for each of us has exploded with the expanding number of items in our homes during the past fifty years. Having all these possessions has caused a shift in our behavior away from human interaction to interaction with inanimate objects. Kids now spend more time online, playing video games or watching TV alone in their rooms than interacting with family or friends. Possessions originally sold on the promise that they would make life easier and increase leisure time have done just the opposite. Often both parents work longer hours to support an ever increasing array of new conveniences that lead them to spend less and less time together. .. perhaps we are becoming a nation of hoarders.’
In simple language, Frost and Steketee explain that from an early age hoarders seem to interpret the emphasis society places on objects and meaning with more strength than the rest of us. ‘Children’s use of the word ‘mine’ seems to occur before their use of the word ‘yours’, usually between the ages of two and two and a half,’ the authors explain. ’When ‘yours’ first enters the vocabulary, it is often in an attempt to convince someone that they already have something and should not pursue ‘mine.” We also get brief but well written summaries of ideas about ownership from philosophers such as Plato, David Hume, William James and Sartre.
‘Stuff’ is serious but it also had me cracking up. There’s a chapter called ‘But It’s Mine!’ and as always, like the Internet addiction self help chat rooms, the paradoxes that come with trying to aid a very specific mental disorder. ‘[We] speak frequently to self-help groups about hoarding. On these occasions, we avoid bringing handouts, as experience has taught us that many in our audience will collect multiple copies, adding to their clutter.’
So if you have a hoarding problem, definitely get this book . . . from the library. For everyone else, it’s brand new at the store and just as instructive. ’Stuff’ definitely changed the way I view material possessions and I’ve probably already saved time, money, space and sanity not buying things.--Marina